The Expansiveness of Spring

This Spring has been a time of transformation for me. Usually this is a great time of year for growth and expansion, and this year has certainly been no exception. I have new projects, new connections, new ideas, and a sense of new life in my life. There are a lot of difficult things going…

Tarot- July 10th, 2016 (Also connection and disconnection)

Sorry this one is a little late in the day.  We just got back from a movie, and I’ll talk a little more about that later.  Today I’m using (as always) The Wildwood Tarot. In the past position, we have the Page of Arrows (Swords).  So we’ve studied and researched, and we’ve laid good foundations…

Tarot, June 26th 2016

Sorry for the absence last week.  My stepfather passed, and we left from his funeral to drive to Maryland and see Husbear’s family.  It’s been a little brutal to say the least. This week, I’m still using The Wildwood Tarot, and I’ll probably be using it for a while.  I just really love it, and…

Bewitching Your Day 22- Polyamory

Notes:  Since the recording of this podcast, our poly has changed.  It often does!  Maybe I’ll record a new episode sometime soon about how we maintain our relationship now.  🙂 More Information: Pagan Polyamory: Becoming a Tribe of Hearts by Raven Kaldera Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino…

Oracle- February 14th, 2016

Sorry this post is a little later in the day than I intended.   It’s Valentine’s Day,  which my husband and I take very seriously.   We had a great day that started with adopting a new rat (a friend for our pet Stanley) from a friend.   Then when we came home,  Bear surprised…

My Creative Life 5-22-15

So.  Yeah.  I haven’t written here much lately.  I haven’t written much ANYWHERE lately. And I know that I usually start of with some excuse about why I haven’t written.  But if you’ll notice, I’ve shifted the focus from My ‘Writing’ Life to My ‘Creative’ Life.  Because while I haven’t written lately, I’ve been arting…

Beltane 2015

The only tradition I have on Beltane is the tradition of all my plans falling apart.  I rarely ever celebrate the way I plan, and I rarely, if ever, get to have sex on Beltane.  This year, as per usual, my plans all fell apart.  Except for the sex.  I’ll leave off of the details,…

My Writing Life, April 5, 2015

Wow. I totally blew this off yesterday. Didn’t even think about it once. I had kind of a rough day, between the pollen getting into my system and inflaming everything that’s already inflamed (my joints always get swollen and painful when the yellow stuff is falling), and some emotional stuff over on Facebook. Basically, it…

Our poly is not like your poly

I’ve hinted at some of our dating activities in this blog before.  Anyone who knows us well knows that Bear and I love each other like crazy.  Anyone who knows us REALLY well knows that some of that love spills over onto other people on occasion. Polyamory, for those who haven’t heard the term, is…

Relationship spread, 4/16/13

Preface: Bear and I have been seeing someone since roughly December.  She’s very limited as far as the time she can spend with us, but we usually manage to see each other once/week.  I’ve been fine with that.  I know that a relationship isn’t measured in time, but in emotions.  Bear and I had a…

Tarot reading, polyamory, and strong boundaries

Sooo..  I had completely given up on finding our third.  We weren’t even looking any more, even though that seems to be a natural state for us.  It’s not that Bear and I aren’t enough for each other, it’s more that we have a lot of extra love, and the idea of bringing a third…